Is That a Safe Word?

Ungentale is a genteral reminder to say, we're getting heated here. It's not going to ignite your anger, but is going to extinguish your anger and be that gentle reminder. Learn to recognize the signs, the triggers that are leading you there. Talk about these things, not in the heat of the moment, but talk about em when you're both calm. Write it down. Won't want another quick hing about this.