"The best things in life aren't easy so this you know this should be something that I that I work for," she says. "I honestly think that's a big explanation for some of my dating choicesYeah it's how we get stuck in these situations because you're also sorry sunk costs as well sunk sunk costs" 'You're actually going to end up losing more if you keep going and it's very unlikely that you're going to get the outcome that you want have you felt that way does that like make sense?' he asks.