Is There a Difference Between New York and the Suburbs?

I think because I never saw New York as a permanent move. I was like, okay, like these are just going to be the fun years and then after that, you know, I can reorient my focus. But now that I'm here in the Bay, I have like way less social obligation. And so I actually put that into focus for me or maybe kind of realized that this was happening. Even though in the moment it felt like, Oh, I'm starting to slowly get back into it.