A lot of our unhappiness has to do with what's in here. The more that you get what you want, sometimes the more unhappy you become. If someone is not willing to be flexible in compromise and find happiness in spite of them not getting what they want, then i'm going to date this person for a couple of weeks. Oh, i'm unhappy. Let me find some one else. Let mefind some one else," he says. "You can't fail the class if you don't show up to the final"