"I don't really connect the loss of erection to these kind of social situations, although i'm sure there is. But i mean, personally, in my own ence, i don't feel that shrivelling up inside type thing when somebody rejects me," he says. "To be the thing that fucks and not the thing that gets fucked is so much a part of our unconscious culture."
Robert Greene (author! The 48 Laws of Power! The Art of Seduction!) makes it weird!