Zell: My parents were just doing the best they could. But culturally and just from them to that's a whole other story with how my parents kind of didn't know how to do anythingr And so i sort of had to, even though they were pushing me this hard,. They weren't actually helpful to me, right? So now, as an adult, ye, i just have this expectation. And part of it isn't all my own cause, like, i like being good at things. I guess it just, i want to be there too. Another expectation is just about like, financial stability, being like, independent and, yes, so that's kind of the nutshell