Is the Legal Process of Divorce a Paradime?

The best way to be peaceful is to disarm your ego and let go even the desire to want it to be peaceful will cause a war inside you. There's a wonderful opportunity to teach your children a different model about life relationships and rage. If you teach them that marriage is really a relationship of two ever changing, growing individuals who have the right to move away if they so choose,. They will be more forgiving of themselves and of you and of each other. You're going through a process of shedding, of transformation and a renewal and a birth.