How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Relationship

"It's the little moments in life where you're sharing in joy that is going to determine the longevity of that relationship," she says. "Don't be like, oh, they're all ball and chain at home and then have fun outside of the home." If you want to keep the spark of life, how can you include your partner in that fun and excitement? It makes a lot of sense if you really think about it and break it down. So basically it's saying that you need to prioritize or make very important laughter and sharing in the joy with people that matter to you".