Do Not Ask What Women Should Do

"We can't put putting the burden on women to i men," she says. "It's got to be that person on the receiving end of their requests who, as you said, is bringing their own context and their own bias in their interpretation of what's being asked for." 'You either really become self aware about ... or you offer before she has to ask,' he adds. ''I'm thrilled, you know, whenever anybody does one or the other of those, absolutely yesie'