Can I Trust?

When you can look to see it for what it is, is that she wants to know, can i count on you? Then you can drop the defensiveness. Just because you process the world in a certain way, doesn't mean she processes the world in that way. It's actually the source of why we have wars, why we have two parties that can't agree on anything,. Why everyone's polarized these days, because you can't comprehend why some one else sees the world differently than you. But if you can take this into the context of your relationship with your woman, she's not going to get easier as you pass those tests over time.