The Year of Refinement

i want to change people's perception about the type of person i am with this project. I don't spend hundreds of pounds on coffee tere, in the same way that i don't want to spend Hundreds of pounds on wine. So how i am seen to the world, i want to refine. And it's just something that i want to be able to focus a little bit more closely on for when i find myself in a situation where i need to know something. Right now i don't know how to choose any of these things.