How to Help a Victim of Covert Narcissism

Narcissism is more about being neurotically hypersensitive to feelings of rejection or being pushed away. If i struggle with covert narcisism, part of the reason i feel like a victim s i really do feel like a victims. And so there is a way t that sensitivity constantly could bring affirmation towards me. But if you'll notice, nobody ever invites me to anything with a sense of, i've been done wrong at a little but element of victimization. When i do that, i get to abdicate my sense of responsibility for it. I'm not able to self reflect on myself,. Where i would much more in a depressed state, be able to have that self