The Most Important Thing, Christine

"Just because you're accustomed to hearing the most profound traumas, doesn't mean you didn't have trauma," she says. "I've had a lot of therapy, but I was out of it for quite a long time." Her older daughter has an amazing therapist that we got two weeks after she moved in with us and he's been with us ever since. She gets into these really, I hate myself moods. We actually got her little sister first and they actually have six brothers, but they're all adopted by different families. The key is follow-up. Make sure somebody's monitoring you to make because you don't can't monitor yourself.