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Savage Lovecast Episode 869

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The Problem With Queer People in Relationships With Cis-Hat People

"It shouldn't be okay for him to have kind of the same sort of cis-heady sex he has with you, with somebody else," she writes. "I don't know how you rationalize that in the end." She says it's more threatening if your partner is out there dating other women and doesn't want a conventional straight presenting to the world relationship where they're both monogamously faithful. "[You] should zoom out to 30,000 feet and make an assessment about whether or not you think viewed from 30,000ft, you two are right for each other for the long haul", she adds.

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