"I don't think any relationship has it all, to be very honest. Your needs aren't always going to be met," she says. "There's nothing in you that feels like a need to cave down and have sex with someone who doesn't understand your type of life stock as it's not easy coming into this." 'You can be somewhere and be completely content and see this as a stepping stone without that meaning that this is miserable and unhappy,' the author adds.