Relationships and Forgiveness

I'm guilty of allowing people to treat me a certain way especially in past relationships. I've hung on to false hope while these people did whatever the fuck they wanted to do to me with no regards to my feelings whatsoever. Actions speak so much louder than words and if someone is treating you as if they don't care about you or they don't love you that is exactly how they feel about you. Just because someone once was able to decide when they wanted you and when they didn't doesn't mean they forever have that power to make that decision. You should be picky about who stays and who goes. It's important to understand that you don't need to hate someone or lose feelings