The Importance of Understanding the Empathic Rupture

I want you to kind of validate that this was a destabilizing empathic rupture not a bait and switch an empathic rupture. This is what we should be working on in couples cancel with sex. A woman can understand how primary the romantic and chemistry and sex part was to the guy feeling romantically connected at all those women can have epiphanies about oh like I guess this really doesn't seem like a marriage to himYou know, it's not the end of the world when it's over because there are other human beings out there that do not You know not have sex with you for a year or whatever your current situation is. But anyway that's putting the car before the horse