The Bid for Connection - I've Been There, I'm Going to Say More About It

The move related to, it's a little dismissive, and i know many of you are familiar with that, but we're being more specific. And the way that is dismissive is that i'm saying that i already know i'm more competent in this subject than you are. So again, kind of coming back to why we might not recognize it. Its somebody makes a bid for connection to us. The counter move would be, ok. She's coming at me. She wants to share something with me. And i say, oh, ye, i've been ther. I've been there. Yes, it's as ben there iv ben the i went there three times. Great idea.