Is Your Wife Resenting You?

You sound like you have expectations that maybe haven't been discussed or set, and maybe your wife doesn't have those same expectations. Nothing good is going to come from resentment increasing between the two of you. Talk about expectations. Ask your wife, what do you want to do? What what goals do you have? And if she doesn't have any, you know, challenge her to set one. You could find a counsellor that you gess could talk to together. You could talk to one of her friends in a social group.