Are You a Nerd or a Non-Nerd?

I know enough people who are intellectuals they genuinely have intellectual interests and they also have social skills and yet they still don't when they're together like engaging intellectual activity unless they have some kind of framework for it. I'm telling you that I came from a different world right but we already discussed right the differencelike so one thing is maybe those people are amateurs  and then another context they were kind of like having free flowing late night meaning of life whatever types of what could the future be like conversations where if you went back in time to those conversations you might not find them very engaging. But it might have been amateur but it might not have been true that is that could just be a