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TMHS 664: Break Dysfunctional Patterns & Build Better Family Connection - With Dr. Shefali Tsabary

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You Don't Value Me, You Can Just Discard Me

The story we tell ourselves when our children's expressions are not matching our fantasy, right? So it all comes with our expectations. When that clash occurs, that's where we get to see how wounded we really are because we will lose our shit. Like one time my daughter asked me to make her this a cyborg. I was thinking I'm going to get an A++ Best Mom Award. And instead she looked at it, she just fiddled with it with her fork and then she was like, no, this is not what I want. But I took it as, oh, you don't value me. I'm not worthy. You can just discard me.

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