The way that we start thinking becomes more and more solidified. So by using questions and reflections a we can take a stuck client and get them to think about things in a new way. It's almost like your brain is trying to protect you from being hurt, because everyti you've done this before, you've gotten absolutely destroyed. And oddly enough, that interpretation and sort of helping people like re interpret their understanding, we'll actually re direct their neuronal pathways and start to catalye change.