Rayes O Absolutely. You Miss This Man Great

It's ok to miss the person and wish they had gotten their ship together? Yes. Absolutely. And you can also say, and i know that that's not possible, yes, i knows that that isn't something that's going to happen, even though i want it. We're so capable as humans of holding all this complexity and allowing it to be true. It's painful and challenging and tricky. But it's also so liberating to recognize that, like, i can feel this way, and i can also know that the thing that i want is impossible.