Using Extravertid Feeling or Harmony in Relationships

Extraverted feeling or harmony is ded to give us a feedback mechanism, as n t ps, on how other people are experiencing us. But it shouldn't be our feedback mechanism on whether or not we're acceptable humans. When you behave towards someone and you discoverd that you were unkind,  you genuinely hurt them as a person. Their pain is something that we can feel a sense of at least partial responsibility around. It allows us to go this behavior is probably not acceptable. And i'll do what i can to be better in the future.