Is Everything Relational, the Way Functional Units?

If we want a theory of reality that tells us what is happening, doesn't it need to also allow us to think about what reality is? I mean, if we take relation quantum mechanics correctly, we cannot talk about the quantum state of the universe. And in fact, that can be said in a precise way tis osopher itis maudorato, who is a elaborated match or that saying,. If this is tru tend we don't have a meaningful concept of what the universe is. Isn't that a problem? i would say it's meaningless because qantomecan mixes the correct description of the uverse.