Having a Queer Identity Is Like a Coat, I'm Always Going to Be Gay

When i first came out, it was probably jarring for son the people close to me. It just, like, to me, a perfect world would be one in which me being gay was just part of me,. And i feel like that's the world i have with a certain pe wrag. With family and friends and people in my close circles, it's just like not even a thing. But outward facing to others, it's almost, it'smy identifying factor, right? Lot of people. Also, cosmo the cougar ri and as a sis, white male, like, throughout his life,  the only experience like that that i've had is growing