I Don't Do Surprises I'm Sure I'll Surprise You but I'd Like to Change It

"There's a power exchange here like I would like to surprise you are you okay with that or I'd like to make this adjustment is that okay" "I think that was one of the things that was less an evolution and more a thing I didn't understand as a baby sub of my personal need to still have a certain level of autonomy," she says. 'If you don't like it I'll never do it again but if you do like it I will keep doing it'