I Was the Perfect Helper and I Was Obi-Wan Kenobi

All three of these are in all of us. I have a personal story about a great, one of my best friends who is actually also a psychologist. She turned and said, do you realize that when you do that, that I don't get a chance to sort of exist that's actually kind of selfish? And it was like one of those times where the light goes on. Where that you began to, somebody finally was able to turn a mirror on that. It was your need. It was my need. You weren't connecting with her.