Gold, Frankincense and Mer are the gifts that the wise men brought to Jesus. But we don't really know what Mer and Frankincense are. So it was embarrassing if you get to a party with our gift. What is Mer? I think I've got a feeling that you use it to like put on people when they when they die,. Like to sort of embalm bodies or something. It's a bit dark. What for birth? The point is that most people don't know what Frankincenses and Mer are. And that's fine.