How Do You Know When You Go Overboard?

How does one know when you gone overboard, right? What is too much, right? So how do you develop that sense in this particular manner? No, that's a really, really good question and I'll tell you, so this is what led to us to develop this mental model. We called it Fiefdoms and Emissaries - an emissary is a messenger who helps to transmit messages across Fiefdoms. And of course there was no science but this notion of established boundaries and the need for boundaries around them.