The word flourishing is implies change. If you're open to changing, you've sort of recognize that you are just sort of potential. You're made of potential, ye, tead of being made of the past. And so when we're talking about calcifying, or being locked in amber, or one, when i think about my parents, people who listen to this pudcass know,. i always say, when i come back from boston, i literally make a reminder on my iphone that says, don't forget, you could be wrong.