The Power of Attunement

Cole: A father apologized to his daughter for blowing up at her because she was taking all of the space from other siblings. He said, why can't I just sometimes lose it and let her feel a little bit like, wow, I don't think dad wants me to do that again? Cole: The word seen is really about attunement. It's about not just her behavior, but now recognize the internal experience. So you can say yes to the feelings, but create limits, which is a no to the behavior.