Most people truly don't understand what real commitment means. They like to stick their toe in the pool and feel what it's going to feel like. And then kind of decide if maybe this is for them or not, or if they like it,. Or if they're going to feel comfortable doing it. Anything worthwhile is going to be uncomfortable. You are going to have to force yourself to go through those actions in order for it to make the result that you want happen.
Average people have no idea what commitment really costs. They feel good about themselves when they exercise a couple weeks worth of focus and self-discipline. The reality is, true commitment requires a wholehearted investment of everything a person has. It requires a sustained effort over an extended period of time. True commitment requires a firm "yes," not a maybe. Knowing how to commit is what makes the difference between those who talk sh*t and those who do sh*t.