The Importance of Men in My Life

I was super anti feminism until age like 18 really I don't know but that's how I feel now. It has been so hard to find men in my life who are good and kind to me some of it's just luck and other of it is because I've been so intentional about not allowing certain men to my life. If you are women you have to be constantly on guard against men like you just do, even if your co-host is a man. The three men that she was closest to were all straight but two of them weren'tstraight they had like issues come out about them being problematic with her. She doesn't even have this good radar for it now but