Are You Being a Grown Up?

Are you being a grown up? Are you expecting that person to go through the house, through the garden before they get to the bedroom? Or are you just boundary less an just letting them in? The question here, h that i've been asked is about being questioned. How do we tell whether the question is just am is just wanting to get to know you and not simply gathering information to use against you later in order to abuse you? Is it love bombing, or is it genuine interest? So i would ask yourself, what is the tone of the questioning, and how does it make you feel? Do you feel like your being interrogated by a cold fish, by some apsychopathic