A Songwriter's Fear of Pleasurizing Someone Unexpectedly

One of the fears, and i'm sure lots of song writers maybe deal with this as well, is that, like this fear of pleasurizing some one accidentally. But then i realize that i can actually read books and read other people's personal struggles and perhaps trying to find some sort of point of empathy. And so that kind of the phase i'm in at the moment, is ching fill my head with words and filling up that well. That's definitely the best of advice that i've read. One song we wanted to ask about was a chosen family, not only ecause it's very er lyrically poignant, but also because you did something with it that i'm not