Is the Gender Binary a Problem?

As a young woman, you weren't stereo typically feminine. The boys were attracted to your masculine energy but didn't feel desired because of it. You grew up in a state where the biner is really reinforced and encouraged. Did you feel frustration or shame about the masculine energy part? I wouldn't say that i felt shame, but i always, i did feel, um, what's the word, is differen i didn't feel attractive because of that.