I am there for her when she's feeling that yes she's there for me and there's an understanding that's Val and I you need to have a shorthand it sounds like a great earmark of a relationship. my mom is like that prescriptive my mom's very prescriptive nice there is just no but my therapist always like I don't want to be prescriptive here yeah because she doesn't want to but then she does it anywayYeah Yeah But if I were to choose between the two I like when someone goes like so what did you think that meant that your dad came or could it mean that he loves you so much he wanted to see you? instead of all these