What Do You Want, What Turned You On?

To peg, or not to peg? That’s the question we’re going to push into today… and yes, pun intended. Pegging, which typically involves a penis owner being penetrated through the use of a strap-on dildo by a vulva owner, seems to be more popular than ever. 

But arguably more than other forms of pleasure, strap on sex challenges the way we think about masculinity, femininity and heteronormative pleasure. Role reversal and anal play require a great deal of trust, empathy and vulnerability. But if partners can work through these challenges, the payoff can be immense. And that’s why on today’s episode, I want to explore not just the steps partners should take to responsibly explore strap on intercourse, but also how the benefits can go way beyond the bedroom.

Show Notes:

• Do’s and Dont’s of Anal Sex
• How to Find The Best Lube For You
• Savage Love by Dan Savage
• Best Sex Toys for Couples
• Harnesses and Anal-Safe Dildos from Good Vibrations 
• Ask Emily: My Partner Is Friendly With Other Guys

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