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117: My College-Bound Kid Is "Soiling the Nest." Help!

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

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How to Address a Mom Who's Already Missing Her Child

Rina Robbins: I keep thinking about this mom and how painful, actually, it's like you jab me in the heart every time we do these leaving the nest episodes. She says kids are really trying to consolidate a new identity and figure out what they are all about at 13. Robbins: Once that identity is fixed in place again or starts to get established, they get to college. They make their friends. They start to feel comfortable in the identity of a college student. And they can be warm with us again.

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