The Dilemma of Being Single

i'm writing regarding a dilemma that only a person of a certain age and still single hopefully could reach is their appropriate age we're paying for short short term companionship is on the table this situation is also assuming legality is not an issue. i'm in my late 30s and make good money and have a great savings plan aka not having children at this point at this point i'm lacking the time and energy to put myself out there and the idea of meaningful commitments not ideal presently. If people were to find out i'm certain my family would be disappointed to put it lightly but with my buddies ostracized me too for reference most of my friends are reasonable logical people like yourselves so thoughts