"i really resonated with his situation and that, like, well, i think you were talking about how, like, there's an inevitable feeling that you're going to run into failure," he said. "And i just feel like as i'm going further in academia, like i'm getting that reality checked the further i go coten, if i don't change something about my behaviour, i will not be able to keep so my point, o g, is i think you actually demonstrate through your history that you're pretty good at developing a plan of attack." He added: 'Your problem is that you need to change the perception that everything is wrong in your life'