Introduction

Anonymous wife reaches out for help. She's married to a professing christian husband with a 20 year history of hidden porn use. He struggles also with sins like lying to look good, not disciplining his children and using a flippant demeanor. As far as i can tell, he is not showing fruits of repentance at all. What strategies are permitted or encouraged for a godly wife to seek change in her husband who's living in sinful ways?