The first weeks back at school can make or break your child’s year — but what most parents miss is that the relationship you build with their teacher is the secret lever that shifts everything. In this episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the surprising stats behind teacher burnout, why parent behaviour matters more than we think, and three game-changing ways to build a relationship with teachers that actually helps your child succeed — even if you’ve had rough years before.

KEY POINTS:

The hidden stress teachers face — and why it impacts your child
Why yelling, demanding, and “fix my kid” approaches backfire
The Parent Advantage: how small acts of service earn trust fast
Gratitude as rocket fuel for teacher morale (done without bribery!)
Don’t believe everything your child says — context matters
How to assume positive intent and extend grace in tough moments

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:

“Teachers are usually on your child’s side. They want to see your child succeed and win.”

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ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

Volunteer for something — reading, excursions, laminating, anything.
Send gratitude early — a note, tiny gift, or simple “I see you.”
Acknowledge wins — when your child shares something positive, pass it on.
Hold stories lightly — get context before reacting.
Assume positive intent — teachers want your child to do well.

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