Introduction

To win is to trust your instinct its being comfortable with your authenticity as the foundation. And then once you have that, you can choose to sprinkle the other stuff on top as flavorit. i want to talk about this idea because i've fallen into the trap, and i think others do too, of looking for answers in the wrong places. To me, other people's guide lines are their guide lines. Were so busy asking what other people want to hear that we're not asking ourselves, hey, what do i want to say? We end up rearranging the deck chairs on the titanicimagine if malcolm gladwell only wrote about what was trending on toite or what was