Stigma and fear around discussing suicidal thoughts

Content Warning: This episode talks about suicide and may be triggering. If you're in crisis or feeling unsafe, please reach out to a crisis line or local resources. We have provided some below.

Suicidal ideation and risk are common among neurodivergent people, and talking openly about suicidality is hard, especially in a society where honesty about these thoughts is often met with fear, stigma, or misunderstanding. Navigating life with suicidal ideation can be an isolating experience, but knowing you're not alone and having resources and strategies at hand can make a life-saving difference.

In this episode, Dr. Megan Anna Neff and Patrick Casale, two AuDHD mental health professionals, discuss suicidality in neurodivergent communities. They share personal stories, break down the spectrum from passive ideation to crisis, discuss the shortcomings of traditional mental health support systems, and offer practical tools for safety planning, reducing risk, and finding hope.

Top 3 reasons to listen to the entire episode:

1. Gain a clear, relatable understanding of the difference between chronic and acute suicidal ideation, including the nuanced ways this shows up for neurodivergent people.
2. Learn practical and accessible tools: how to create a personalized safety plan, what “means reduction” really involves, and how to identify red flags in yourself or loved ones, all explained with sensitivity and real-world insight.
3. Find validation and connection from hearing honest, stigma-free conversations about suicidality from mental health professionals who genuinely get it, and discover resources, grounding strategies, and hope for weathering difficult moments.

If you or someone you care about has ever felt overwhelmed by thoughts of not wanting to exist, this episode offers education, real talk, and actionable strategies. Listen for life-affirming insight and ways to help yourself or others stay safe, seen, and supported.

Resources

• Free Workbook by Neurodivergent Insights: neurodivergentinsights.com/free/the-neurodivergent-adapted-safety-plan
• For a list of US and International Crises Lines (including non-carceral lines): neurodivergentinsights.com/neurodivergent-crises-support
• National Mental Health Hotline: 988lifeline.org
• International Association for Suicide Prevention: iasp.info/suicidalthoughts
• Crisis Call Center: hopeline-nc.org
• SeekHealing (North Carolina, USA): seekhealing.org

International

• U.K.: Samaritans 116 123
• Canada: 988 or Talk Suicide Canada (1-833-456-4566)
• Australia: Lifeline 13 11 14

*Non-Carceral Lines

Some crisis lines can lead to law enforcement involvement, which can put BIPOC and Trans people at risk. Here are non-carceral lines for BIPOC and Trans communities:

• Trans Lifeline Hotline: Call U.S. (877) 565-8860 or Canada (877) 330-6366
• BlackLine: Call 1 (800) 604-5841 or visit callblackline.com

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