I'm Not Going to Run Me Because I'M a Man, but I Want to Help You

I would literally, when my wife tried to help me a lot early on in our marriage, I'd be like, I just wouldn't listen to her. She's kind of a strong-willed woman. So she needs to sit down and shut up because she's not going to run me because I'm a man. And then yet know that I'm sent to him to help him. There was a real struggle there for us, for me, especially because my desire was to help but he had to really come to an awareness that that was really my desire and not to take over.