Sleep With a Girl - Is That Contrary to Your Goals?

I said I wanted to date a few and sleep with them and that's kind of like so like sleeping with this girl. Is that contrary to your goals? No. But dude, why do you have this idea in your head that if you sleep with a girl the first night, it is a one night stand or it is rushed? Because that's what I've done in the past before when I've rushed it. It's usually with girls I don't like and with her I didn't I wasn't I don't really like her that much. You got to unpack some things here if you don't want to sleep with women that you aren't emotionally attracted to that's totally