Are You Asking God What He Wants You to Do?

i think sometimes when we say yes to all the good things, were maybe taking a yes that could have been some one else's right. And so for me, i if i'm faced with occa siou, i mean, twer this personor should i, you know, disciple this girl? I really need to start by prayer in asking god and then asking community,. If like, hey, this seems like it wld ba, good fit, is it? Or is this just my fleshly desire to want to help people, rather than, like, serve god? Sometimes it is good motivations, but it still can be the wrong thing. We live life with zeal.