Is Your Partner Raising You the Wrong Way?

"You don't know you have these things until all the sudden your partner is rubbing you the wrong way and making you feel" "I use that with a great big asterisk because it's bringing out some places you didn't realize we're going to be brought up until they are," she says of her parenting experiences. 'Hopefully being kind with that not like a critical like oh why am I always disappointed or what man why am I disengaged but like this is this happens because I am trying to protect something really important' You can then go to the next step of connecting with your partner in terms of what is happening for your partner how can you understand their experience which means temporarily you will